Pizza was the focus of several conversations this morning.
And we weren’t discussing ordering lunch. The subject was challenging foods,
and pizza was mentioned during more than one patient session. And I didn’t
bring up this potentially triggering topic.
One of my favorite pizza places in Bar Harbor, ME |
For some, pizza is fine if you’ve made it yourself—at least
you know just what went into it. For
others, it’s okay if it’s organic or whole wheat. For most everyone it’s fine
if it can be eaten in control.
So what is it about pizza?
As I sit down to write this piece I recall how shocked I was
at age 9, when I overheard the conversation. The birthday-party hostess, my friend’s
mother, related to my mother with shock and horror that I downed 4 slices of
pizza! Besides feeling full, I can’t say I thought anything of it at the
time—that is until I heard her comment. And I can remember many a comment my
mother had made about my appetite—that I eat as much as my 6’1” father, for
instance—not exactly stated with pride, I’ll add. Yet she failed to recognize
that her baseline for comparison was her chronic dieting and self-denial, and
that my father could easily have been described as low body weight. And, I was
a preteen, growing to a height at the 95th%ile. Why should it come
as any surprise I had a hefty appetite? I was perhaps expending more calories
than my non-growing father! Four slices for me was slightly more than
appropriate, I recall.
Okay, okay, now that I processed some of that therapeutic
history, let’s talk more about pizza and you.
Lessons about eating pizza
It helps to break it down into smaller pieces. Well, I don’t
mean that literally. Rather, that it helps to think about what pizza really is to make it easier to digest.
The base has three ingredients: flour, yeast and salt. Period. How bad is
that? Not very at all!
Homemade, grilled pizza. Delicious! |
And the grease? It's simply what you see when you heat up cheese. If you must, blot it. Otherwise, just recognize it as separated cheese. And then there’s an insignificant amount of sauce (which the US school lunch program would like to count as a vegetable serving but is hardly enough to count!)
How does it fit or compare to other meals you might be
having? Well, the protein- rich element is much lower—again, for 2 slices,
that’s less than 2 ounces—much less than anyone would need for a dinner
meal—that’s for certain. So if the grain or starch component is larger than you’d usually eat, just
remember that the protein is way less than you need.
How do I eat it in control?
• Don’t serve it from the table! Pizza, in my opinion, smells
yummy, and it’s easy when foods smell good and taste good, to eat them beyond a
comfortable level of fullness. Keep it warming in the oven. Or simply get a
couple slices to go, when you are first starting out. But really you might need
more than just 2 to meet your needs. Maybe even 2 ½ slices. Yes, you can cut
slices in half! Ask them to do it at the pizza place. Tell them it’s for your
baby sister.
• Serve it with other items—a salad, cooked veggies, a glass
of milk, a cut up fruit—to help you add some balance and some modest volume to
know when you are full.
• Stop calling it junk food! If you label it junk, you think
you have done something wrong. And if you think you’ve done wrong, you’re
likely to feel ashamed. You may view it in black and white terms, thinking you
must compensate for having eaten it. And that will get you into some real
trouble!
And what about things that really are junk? You know, they have no redeeming value from a nutrient
stand point? About those foods, I say enjoy them. Not 5 times a day. Not with
rigid rules like “only on the 3rd Friday of the month”! No, make
them a part of your regular routine, but include them instead of something you
typically eat (but that you don’t necessarily enjoy), when you need the fuel,
when you are hungry or need to have a snack on your plan.
Don’t approach pizza or any meals feeling ravenous! It is a recipe for disaster. You’ll eat too fast, and will likely eat beyond a comfortable level of fullness.
So go ahead and enjoy some pizza. Try it topped with fresh fig, sliced
pear or pineapple, or maybe artichoke or roasted peppers. And don’t listen to
anyone else’s comments about pizza or about how much you’re allowed to be
eating!
Let me know how it goes!
Thank you a lot for this post. It really resonates me and shows me the different stages of my recovery journey. When I was deep into my eating disorder pizza was among the list of "forbidden" foods. Through a lot of pushing I finally decided to try homemade pizza for the first time a few months ago. After eating (and enjoying) that a few times I was challenged to order pizza out some where. After all it's the EXACT same thing,; bread, cheese, sauce, possible meat/veggies depending on how you like it.
ReplyDeleteFor me, it's been really helpful to take apart foods like you described. When I am able to realize that a slice of pizza has similar ingredients to the sandwich that I always eat, it lessens my fear. I am slowly learning to let go of my "good" and "bad" food labels.
Again, thanks a lot for this post.
Excellent post, Lori.
ReplyDeleteOh no, after reading this, I'm craving for pizza. Not the healthy kind either... but pepperoni with lots of extra cheese. You only live once, right? ;)
ReplyDeleteThis is funny to me because after gastric bypass pizza was the one thing I craved the most. I do occasionally have pizza when I'm really wanting it. I do it when I'm sharing with a friend and I no longer sit down and eat half the family size. I know that if it were up to my surgeon I would never eat this and many other "bad" foods again however I don't feel like I can live my life that way. So I'm trying to find that balance that is livable for me where I can be healthy and feel fulfilled.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE pizza!!! It's a great way to get in all your food groups, as long as it's topped with the appropriate toppings. I frequently tell this to people, to their surprise, that pizza is a great food to eat. Enjoyed reading your post :)
ReplyDeleteI had pizza for dinner tonight (before reading this post - what a coincidence!). I love pizza!
ReplyDeleteI guess it's true that it was on my list of "bad foods" for a long time. I think what helped me to begin eating it, actually, was that treatment centers serve pizza and I ate it there. Also, pizza has a "bad" reputation but it's not necessarily all that high in calories.... So, actually, it somehow became a safer food for me at some point along the way - probably because I thought I could estimate the calories for it fairly well. I don't count calories anymore though.
I know for me, for my particular body, 2 slices is occasionally enough - but usually I need three slices. And if the slices are just medium-sized, then of course I need more. Also, for a while, I always ordered veggie pizza... but then I just got real with myself. My favorite kind of pizza is cheese. Plain cheese. 4 cheese (especially if one of them is blue cheese) is even better. So now, I don't even try to be different than my true craving: plain cheese pizza.
I LOVE plain cheese pizza! It is the only way I have ever eaten it. My friends all think that I am a little strange...
DeleteI definitely needed help overcoming my 'fear' of pizza, but now that I have (with your help), it is actually one of my safer foods. How ironic is that? I guess because I now know how to count it and I enjoy it loaded with veggies...it seems like an ok food to have. And it makes me feel 'normal'. I will say, however, that making my own was definitely the first step...that was a great place to start.
ReplyDeleteHeh Im so glad that the only thing I couldnt say a huge "yes" to was the idea of fruit on pizza- a terible blasphemy :P
ReplyDeleteGreat article!
Had pizza for dinner tonight, and thought of you and this post :)
ReplyDeleteHad pizza for dinner again last night - haha, I just figure I'll tell you every time I have pizza from now until your next post :)
ReplyDeleteThis is extremely random-- I stumbled across your blog from another ED blog about the conference [and I'm in recovery-ish]. Can you tell me the name of your fave bar harbor pizza place? I'm going there on vacay for the first time this week & it looks fabulous!
ReplyDeleteLOL! The pizza place is called Rosalie's and it's on the main drag in the center of town. I'm envious--I love Acadia! Fabulous hiking and a great town. Happy to provide you with any other recommendations--just email!
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ReplyDeleteI discovered a place that makes gluten-free pizza. I get it with a heap of veggies, dough is only there to keep the thing together. And since it's gluten-free, people think it's yucky so it's all mine, nobody wants to share and I have two or three dinners. [shameless bragging] see? not fifteen, neither one, along with a bucket of ice cream and anything else that doesn't run away[/shameless bragging]
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's something cultural but I never considered pizza a junk food anyway.