Debra
came to me frustrated about her climbing weight, now about 20 pounds out of her
normal range. This is nothing unusual for me—plenty of women and many men reach
this point, desperate for answers and guidance to help them take charge of
their weight. Others present for help managing symptoms or medical
outcomes—like high blood pressure or cholesterol or GERD that have more to do
with the quality of their diet than with their weight.
Debra
was an active woman in her 50s, a non-emotional eater—yes, they do exist—who
felt like she was doing most things right. She ate regular meals and snacks;
she had to, as she started to feel really low energy, and fuzzy headed if she
didn’t. And she’d start to get the sweats, too. She had a history of very high
cholesterol, and a family history of Type 2 diabetes as well. And the weight
she had previously maintained, her normal weight, was nothing crazy, nor did it
require heroic measures to achieve it. Her goals were quite realistic.
After
reviewing Debra’s intake and activity, I made modest recommendations to ensure
she was doing whatever was reasonable in terms of change. Was she still getting
the workout that she thought she was, or does she need to evaluate her
intensity or duration? Perhaps with better conditioning she could prevent
further weight gain. Was she inadvertently influenced by the halo effect—having more of those foods
she believed to be healthy, such as lean protein sources or nuts—without an
awareness of just how much was enough? (http://dropitandeat.blogspot.com/2011/05/halo-effect-your-thoughts-about-healthy.html)
Fullness was challenging to observe, she had stated. Perhaps she needed to
evaluate just how much she needed as opposed to portioning her food on
autopilot, without much attention to her need http://dropitandeat.blogspot.com/2010/08/size-matters-but-not-how-you-think.html
or http://dropitandeat.blogspot.com/2011/02/who-or-what-decides-how-much-you-eat.html
While these recommendations were helpful—and prevented further weight gain—it was
clear to me that another explanation was responsible. She had many markers for polycystic
ovarian syndrome (PCOS) or hyperinsulinemia, a condition where high circulating
levels of insulin result in symptoms of low blood sugar (including the sweats,
fuzzy headedness, irritability and immediate need for food). (For more on
hyperinsulinemia http://www.diabetes.co.uk/hyperinsulinemia.html)
At
my suggestion, she went to see an endocrinologist—an MD appropriate for
evaluating such conditions. From Debra’s report she shared her sense of despair
about her climbing weight and belly fat, yet the doctor began to dismiss her, like
all the overweight women who presented before her, with a simplistic,
patronizing “Eat less and exercise more”.
Yes, judgment was decreed without even listening to how high her activity
already was and how appropriate her eating has consistently been.
But once she
added the comment about the symptoms between eating—those low blood sugar-type
symptoms—he got it. He finally recognized that it was unfair to put the blame
on her—to simply tell her she needs to exercise more or eat less because after
all, weight management is about energy balance. He put her on metformin, which
addresses the underlying issue—it’s an insulin sensitizer, so it helps prevent
excess levels of circulating insulin.
The
outcome? Most importantly, her symptoms stopped and she felt so much better. No
more shakiness in between meals, and the sweats ceased, too. And, her weight
dropped about 9 pounds over the past year, in contrast to the weight climb the
preceding year that felt so out of her hands.
Weight bias in reverse

And
what did my doctor do? Nothing. Other
than telling me to continue to ‘watch my diet’ and maintain my activity (about which he knew little), that
is. Yet the variables that I can control are already in order. My diet and
exercise aren’t going to change for better so I don’t suspect there will be any
astounding improvement. Most likely, my hormone status was likely the greatest
factor increasing my levels—LDL can increase 15-25% with menopause! But heart disease risk similarly increases with postmenopausal elevations in cholesterol.
Me (in Robin's hand-me-downs) and my slim father who had type 2 DM, high blood pressure and high cholesterol. |
In spite of
my high cholesterol, my doctor didn’t suggest that I have it rechecked in 3
months or that I start a statin to lower the levels. He didn't explore my exercise frequency, intensity or duration. While the updated 2014 cardiac risk calculator concludes statins for cholesterol lowering aren't necessary for me, (and doesn't include weight in the assessment) he didn't plug the numbers into this risk analyzer (I did later though.) No, I did not look like a
high cholesterol patient so my cardiac risk was minimized.
I
share this for those of you still blaming yourself—for your health, and for
your weight. That is not to say that there aren’t things you can do to take
charge of your health. Physical activity in moderate levels can improve insulin
sensitivity, lower cholesterol, improve blood sugar and assist in energy balance.
Oh, and it certainly may help mood and sleep, too. And eating portions
appropriate for your need can help everything from reflux to fatigue to your weight
climbing out of your normal, healthy range. Eating more home prepped meals can
give you more control of portions and meal content. Even for you non-cooks,
there are plenty of easy-to-prepare, yummy dishes you can make, with practical strategies for pulling it all together. And avoiding
long periods without food certainly will improve your energy level and your
control of eating when you finally take the time to eat.
But
if you’re already doing what’s in your hands to do, don’t let others burden you
with blame. And start to advocate for the care you deserve.
When
I see my new doctor, you can bet I’ll
be discussing my labs and inquiring about any treatments that might lower my risk . Because truly, my high cholesterol is not my fault.
thanks for reading!